Sunday, July 06, 2008

Prayer and Help For My Mother, Carol







Background Information: My mother has battled cancer most of her life. She had a complete hysterectomy, her entire colon has been removed and she now had a double, radical mastectomy. She completed all her chemo infusions at Hershey Medical Center and she now must be on an oral chemo daily for the next 84 months which insurance will not cover. Because of this and in addition to her other health issues, she has an abnormal amount of prescriptions (28 to be exact) that she must take at this time. Her out of pocket expenses are many thousands of dollars each year. We are not ones to ask for help but because of the situation my mom is in and my dad becoming disabled and only making a fraction of what he used to, we decided to post this for anyone who might be led to help with her medical expenses. We humbly thank you for your prayers and support.

Update 6/12/2009: I wanted to update everyone on my mother. She is being examined by her breast surgeon and her oncologist every six months. Because her ONKA tests came in high, she is at a high risk for the cancer to return. This is one reason she will take her oral chemo for seven years instead of five. She is also taking Percocet for pain which they say may be from the chemo but they are going to do further testing to be certain. She has a hernia at her ileostomy and that also must be repaired and the ileostomy must be re-routed. She is in good spirits because she knows that God is sovereign and she has been blessed with so many brothers and sisters who continue to encourage her in many ways. With hesitation, my mom has allowed me to share with you that she is on 28 prescriptions. She is now entering the donut-hole in her insurance. The donut-hole is an annual period of time where she must pay 100% out of pocket for all her prescriptions which amounts to thousands of dollars over and beyond her other medical expenses. I am going to put the paypal button back up as there is a need at this time if anyone is led to help. Thank you for all your continued prayers and support.

Update 3/18/2009: My mother has now been accepted into an oncology assistance program which is good through December 2009. I am going to take down the paypal. It will not be an easy thing because of all the prescriptions my mother has to take in addition to her daily chemo but it is now a bit more manageable. I would like to thank everyone who has contributed. Please continue to pray for my parents.

Update 2/14/2009: My mother has been denied the oncology assistance but is appealing the decision. I am opening the donation PayPal button for now and will also give those who would rather give direct to the pharmacy an account number offline. Your continued prayers for my mother and for an approval would be greatly appreciated.

Update 2/1/2009: My mother has applied for an "Oncology Patient Assistance Program". This will take up to 30 days for an answer. At this time we are asking that no donations be made until we receive an answer. If my mother is accepted into this program it will help offset the out of pocket expenses for her medicine. If approved, our goal is to remove the banner. Your continued prayers would be greatly appreciated and we have been humbled by everyone's response of love for our Lord!

Blessings,

Josh from Truth Matters


End of post.

89 comments:

Lane Chaplin said...

Her and your family are in my prayers, Josh.

Puritan said...

I pray for both your mother and that you will get a good response.

Anonymous said...

The "seeker churches" you condemn would pay these medical expenses. Good luck with your reformed family. I have found them to be hard and unloving much like your blog. Believe me, I know for a fact that Rick Warren has paid thousands out of his own pocket for situations just like this. Maybe you ought to reconsider coming over to our side.

dora said...

Will pray.

dora said...

Comimg over to your side? I thought we were one in Christ?

And since when was getting money from a church any reason to join one?

You have much to consider.

Ed said...

Stow your weapons. Let's focus on how we can help this man and his mother.

Anonymous said...

I am an old preacher and I can tell you that there are saved and lost in every church. This is not about minor differences this is about family! I will be praying for you!

Pastor Charles

Big Al said...

Thank you for sharing your circumstances and giving us the opportunity to give. Your blog has been a great blessing to me. Your mother, you and your family will be in our prayers.

Big Al said...

To "seeker" anonymous, I disagree with Rick Warren theologically however I do think he is a nice guy and would totally disavow your comments.

Opps, your fruit is showing

Lane Chaplin said...

I believe this statement says it all:

"Believe me, I know for a fact that Rick Warren has paid thousands out of his own pocket for situations just like this. Maybe you ought to reconsider coming over to our side."

How is this mentality anything different from how a sports team or a corporation is run? "You should end your loyalties to so and so... we pay more."

"Amazing, daring, bold, and brazen" anonymous person, you may keep your business and it's practices. You've proved once again that the people who have asked Rick Warren to come into their heart are only concerned about one thing: business as usual. Have fun with your pretend relationships and your contrived happiness. Most of us have been there and wouldn't go back for all the money Rick has deceived people into giving him for his rendition of "The Gospel According to Warren." It amazes me that you would be so callous as to bring that up on a thread such as this, but it isn't surprising in the least because whenever you have to surround yourself with pretend relationships for acceptance from others, it shouldn't surprise anyone that true compassion is something that would be lacking in demonstration. It's all pretend anyway; why stop now, huh? It's just business as usual...

J & J Bible Ministry said...

Anonymous,

This post regarding my mom is not the place for a comment such as the one you made.

Thanks Lane, Dora, Big Al, Ed and Puritan for your encouraging comments and prayers.

Blessings,

Josh

Dani said...

I will be praying for you and your family Josh.

Jay Wingard said...

Josh, you and your family are in my prayers.

Jenny said...

May God bless you and keep you and your family. I'll be praying for your mother and your family. To God be the glory.

Jenny

Anonymous said...

I have left a donation. Let us know about any future financial needs also.

It is such a pity that you can have health insurance in America and still be out of pocket such enormous amounts. ( Talk about kicking somebody when they're down. ) Coming from overseas where we have a universal health care system (Australia), it's not perfect but we are so grateful for it. I hope America can fix its health care crisis (especially with elections this year).

Praying for your mother and just want to say that I really enjoy your blog.

Derek said...

We will pray and donate as well. Stand strong brother!

Robert said...

Josh,
We here will pray for you; Thank you for allowing me to donate to a brother/sister in need...may God be glorified.

You've blessed us so much, this small thing is our privlege.

J & J Bible Ministry said...

Once again I would like to extend my thanks for all your prayers and generosity. Thus far we have received donations to pay for one month of chemotherapy. My mom is very, very grateful. I will keep you posted as we continue through this. Again, thank you.

Blessings,

Josh

Anonymous said...

Listen folks if many of us would just give the price of a cup of coffee we could really help this family. One person can't do it but many giving little would really make a difference. If this blog has blessed you as it has me please just donate $1.00. We are family and family takes care of each other. I am praying for you and your family and that each one of us who visits this site would consider even the smallest gift.

Pastor Chuck Wagner

Anonymous said...

Josh,

I made a donation. I am praying for you, your mother and family. I am also praying that this one month of your mother's cancer medicine would turn into the full 60 months she needs.

For His Glory,

Joel

Ed said...

I've donated. Please keep us up to date with your needs.

(by a concerned Salvationist)

J & J Bible Ministry said...

Ed,

I will keep you and everyone updated. I plan to post an update once a week. Thank you all for your continued prayers and generosity. I can't even begin to tell you how much it means to us.

Blessings,

Josh

Anonymous said...

Has not my prophecy come true Mr. anti-seeker sensitive?

Anonymous said...

"Has not my prophecy come true Mr. anti-seeker sensitive?"

Listen, you whoever you are? you do not represent "seeker-sensitive" people at all. Obviously you are bitter about this blog but this blog loves our brothers and sisters in what you call "seeker-sensitive" churches. Yes, this blog disagree's about the way they do evangelism, but there is NO hate or bitterness towards them like you are showing in a very cowardly way by hiding behind "anonymous". Everything that I see here at Truth Matters is seeking to promote "Truth" in a way that "we" as God's people give the Lord the glory that He deserves!
I don't know why Josh would allow you to comment here because this is NOT the venue to air such hatred! The only thing I can come up with is because Josh knows that your only hope is to repent and place your faith in Christ alone.
From what you have said you have "much" to fear!

Karlene Hoffman (California)

Anonymous said...

My mother lost her battle with cancer and even though I know she is with the Lord it has been very difficult. It makes me sick to see a comment such as this. I'm praying for your family.

Karen Frey

J & J Bible Ministry said...

Anonymous,

You called me, Mr. anti-seeker sensitive. I am certainly "anti" anything that falls short of an absolute biblical standard. Even the short-comings in my own theology, doctrine & life, when discovered, must be abandoned. We should want to be exceedingly sensitive to sin or anything else that underminds biblically sound doctrinal standards in every area of our lives. We should also want to be a radically biblical follower of Jesus Christ. We should want to see every lost person on this planet to repent of their sins and place their faith in Jesus Christ as their only hope of salvation, and join His people in glorifying and worshiping Him in spirit and truth (1John 4:23). And I believe that His blood bought church (the body of Christ) has been given the means of grace in accomplishing these goals and attitudes through the preaching of the word, administering of the sacraments, prayer and fellowship.

I believe that our sovereign Lord has laid out in His Word who can worship Him, along with the when, where, and how this worship is acceptable (Psalm 24:3-4). I also believe that so-called "seeker-sensitive" worship (in it's various forms) falls short of what God's Word tells us, and actually undermines true church growth. The urgency of the gospel, and the seriousness of biblical worship, along with a God-centered focus, are lost when the "means of grace" are replaced with cheap substitutes in the name of "doing church" for the unchurched. What you essentially have left then is nothing more than a modern day Finney crusade: Pragmatic techniques that are based on bad theology and a misunderstanding of biblical worship.

One of the goals that we have laid out here on Truth Matter's blog is this: to glorify God by calling the visible church to be obedient to true Worship. The apostle Paul in Timothy laid out several principles for every Christians to obey: 1.) be faithful in preaching biblical truth; 2.) be bold in exposing error; 3.) be an example of godliness. Even with our admitted short-comings here at Truth Matter's...we strive to meet these goals. And in so doing, I simply don't want Truth Matter's to become just another "watch-dog" ministry. But I want it to encourage you (whoever "you" are) not to settle for the latest fad's or status quo or anything less than becoming a sold-out, radically biblical disciple of Jesus Christ, who loves Him above all things as you seek to worship Him and glorify Him in spirit and truth.

I also want to say that I completely forgive any misguided insults directed to me or my family. And I ask that you do the same if my postings seem offensive at times.

Blessings,

Josh from Truth Matters

Ralph M. Petersen- Always Right;Sometimes Wrong! said...

Josh,

Your mother and your family are in my prayers; I know the horrors of cancer.

I am, admittedly, sharp, satirical and sometimes sarcastic; those are descriptive characteristics of my blog. But, sometimes that is not appropriate so it really pains me to read the irrelevant and insensitive drivel from the person who hides his vitriol behind the name "Annonymous" in this time of need. I am sorry about his rudeness but you have responded with grace and mercy.

Although Rick Warren may be able to mobilize thousands of donors, God is in control of all the resources.

Thanks for all you do in the battle for Truth.

~R said...

Praying for y'all.

Anonymous said...

I don't mean to be to personal but was wondering how things are going as far as the financial support. I have been praying for you to get at least enough money for this year.

Gladys Meyers (Leola)

J & J Bible Ministry said...

Gladys,

Hello and thank you for visiting us. Thank you very much for your prayers. I plan to post updates periodically. Financially, as of today we have been able to purchase a 4 month supply of my mom's chemotherapy. We are very, very grateful. 4 months down and 8 months to go for the year and 56 months to go in all until she is completely finished. Physically, she has been in agonizing pain the past few weeks until today. Today she is having a good day and feels much better. Once again thank you so much for all your prayers and help.

Blessings,

Josh

Testing the Spirits said...

Josh
I don't know if you checked an insurance company called, Medi-Share. It is a christian company that share medical expenses. I heard about them on the local Christian radio station. here is the link:

http://medi-share.org/index.aspx

God Bless you and your family

Mike from Spring Hill, TN

Anonymous said...

Josh,
My heart went out to you for selling your car. My cousin has a car dealership and I asked him if he would be willing to donate a moderately priced vehicle. He is not a christian and flat out told me no. I don't have the kind of money to get you one but if I could I would! How in the world do you get around? I might be able to afford a 1970 VW bug.(just kidding) I will be praying for you and your mother.

Mike (Ohio)

J & J Bible Ministry said...

Mike,

Thank you for your prayers and for your thoughtfulness. To answer your question, my wife kept her car to get herself back and forth to work. I use her car when its available and I borrow my dads car when I can. However, some day, Lord willing, I hope to have my own transportation as I work 3 jobs but purchasing a car right now is not even an option. The priority is for me to somehow get my mom's chemo and her other major expenses taken care of.

Thank you again brother for your prayers and for your thoughtfulness. It's very much appreciated! I can't even begin to explain how humbled I am of the outpouring of love from folks like you, my brothers and sisters in Christ.

Blessings,

Josh from Truth Matters

Anonymous said...

Your blog has been a great blessing to me. Your family will be in our prayers.

Chuck said...

Josh,it's really great to see that you love Him. "Those that love me,obey me" "Honor thy Mother and Father" proof is always in the pudding

Rick Frueh said...

Both attempts to reply to your e-mail have been sent back. Do you have another e-mail address? I attempted to donate but was unsuccessful, I will try tomorrow.

J & J Bible Ministry said...

Brother Rick,

I believe I fixed the problem with my email.

I look forward to hearing from you.

Blessings,

Josh

Anonymous said...

I have not seen your dad for some time but after figuring out that Carol was his wife and you were his son I called him. Your mom and dad helped me many years ago by paying my rent and buying me groceries at a time me and my family were struggling. They also gave my family a set of Bible commentaries. This was back in the 80's.

I contacted your dad and asked him to level with me because he was reluctant to talk about his finances. He told me that there has been some wonderful brothers and sisters who have given due to your posting about this situation and that the Lord will provide. After pressing him about this he finally told me that he has spent his entire retirement monies on medical bills and was concerned that you not only sold your "dream" car but you are also working two jobs to help them. He said he does not want to over burden you and your family. It saddens my heart that he has also morgaged his house to pay for past surgeries and all that goes with chemo infusions and all the medications Carol is now taking.

I finally asked him how he and his wife handle something like this and not be angry with God. He did not like this question to say the least. He looked me straight in the eyes and said that even if God does not heal Carol from this cancer that God is good and He is precious.

Josh, I said all this because your visitor's on your blog would never here all this from you and I know your dad would never say this in a public way. He made it very clear to me that the Lord doesn't need any help and He will do whats best no matter what the outcome! He also re-emphasized that there have been some wonderful people who visit your blog who have sacrificially given and he said this with tears in his eyes.

I don't have much but I am going to try to contact some people and see if together we can start moving that thermometer.

Finally, I would like to say to you that you have been blessed with wonderful parents.

"Old Friend" Your dad will know who I am and he probably won't like me saying some of these things. I'll just blame you for letting this comment go through! If you don't put it through I will understand but I think sometimes we should humble ourselves and inform our brothers and sisters because we are family and the need is great.

Andy said...

Donated Brother, I pray that your Mom heals quickly. I thank God for your ministry.

Grace and Peace,
Andy

Amy said...

Josh,
You and your mother are in my thoughts and prayers...seriously. I honestly wish I could give a financial gift, but I'm really tight financially (which is a whole other blog post) myself right now. So I DO understand your situation (more than you probably can even guess).

Blessings,
~Amy :)
http://amyiswalkinginthespirit.blogspot.com

Hazel said...

Hello Josh,

You, your mom and the rest of your family will most definitely be in our prayers.

Hazel

Dennis said...

Josh,
I stand with you and your family in prayer.

Dennis

Stephanie said...

I only found this blog a few days ago (from a comment left on my blog) but have already found it such a blessing. It's refreshing to see the truth proclaimed (through videos, etc.) with such conviction and passion.

I'm sorry to hear about your mom and will be keeping her and your family in my prayers. May God give you abundant peace and strength in this trial, and may He use it to glorify Himself.

Isaiah said...

Josh, your family and your mom are in my prayers.

Jean Gasho-Musuka said...

Josh and Family
Your family has been in my thoughts and prayers lately. I am sad that I am unable to donate, but the least I can do is pray. This blog is very good and a blessings to me. I hope and pray that God's grace will be sufficient for you.

Anonymous said...

I found this through the heretics from pulpit pimps. They are always blasting my pastor Fred Price! If you would listen to Fred's teachings your mother would not have cancer in the first place! So I plead with you to disconnect yourselves from the real pimp and learn from Fred what real faith "really" is!!!! Your mom not only would not have cancer but she also wouldn't have a financial need. What pathetic faith! Rev. Price is driving a roll royce and you sell your car? Which faith actually works? The one that "WORKS"!!!

Anonymous said...

I have no idea who Fred Price is but I am sickened by such a statement. How dare you to come on here and take issue with a family who is in need? If you have a problem with another blog site than take it up with them. And while you are at it, why not use your name? If you really believe that "real" faith doesn't get sick than I guess you are not planning to die? I'm at loss for words.

Kyle Taylor

Anonymous said...

I never heard of Fred Price either. That aside, how can anybody stoop so low to come on a blog and step on someone who has a life threatening disease? You question this woman's faith? You have much to fear!

Ken Dull

dora said...

Don't worry if you have never heard of fred price, you've missed nothing. He is just another word of faith person.

Also, betty price his wife has had cancer and surgery for it. And the cancer recurred. So, where was her faith? She wrote a book about it.

As for driving a rolls royce, so do sinners, so what of it?

There was the rich man and Lazarus spoken of in Luke 16. Which one went to hell? Oh, of course I forgot, as far as fred price is concerned there is no hell, and we also choose when we die.

What a weirdo!

Thank God for Jesus.

Still praying for Carol, and let's all give as we can.

God bless.

C. A. Blackmon said...

To the person called anonymous who is a member of Fred Price's church - The only "heretics" at pulpit pimps are those, like you, who are following the WoF heresy and are so caught up in the traditions of men that they don't have a mind to study the Word of God for themselves. The same attitude the Berean's displayed is totally foreign to them. They only come around, again like you, to see what's being said about their "mend of Gawd" and offer up poor excuses for the false doctrine and ungodly teachings their minister's offer. Pulpit Pimps is the best site on the internet when it comes to exposing lies and defending the truth.

As for the recommendation to follow the teachings of false "apostle" Fredrick K.C. Price, correct me if I'm wrong, but didn't his wife not only receive treatment for cancer, but she did it under an assumed name and was only exposed because a member of Fred' church worked in her doctor's office and recognized her? Do not waste your time trying to influence saints away from the solid truth towards a cheap imitation.

Bro., I am praying for your mother and you. I count it an honor and a privilege to be able to contribute towards her medication. She is blessed to have a son like you. Praise God for both of you and the strength of your entire family's testimony!

Anonymous said...

Thankyou C.A. Blackmon for standing for the truth! I have never heard of Price but I cannot fathom being this hard hearted to go on a blog and boast in a man-centered faith and condemn a sister's faith because she has cancer? It's beyond my understanding. And to be so bold to only show his/her real boldness and hide behind anonymous??

Karen Frey

Anonymous said...

Try cottage cheese and flax oil....it is supposed to cure cancer.

Matt said...

Josh and Family,

It is my hope and prayer that we can all chip in and get that thermometer to the top. Money is the last thing your mom needs to worry about.

Matt

Marion said...

Hi Josh, we will pray for your mom and hopefully find a way to support.
Greetings from Germany,
Marion

Jefferson Twillsbury said...

Praying here! May he grant your family the peace that passes all understanding and use all of your circumstances for His glory.

Candy said...

I am so thankful for what you do here. Your commitment to the truth is very encouraging in these days of compromise. Thanks for the opportunity to be able to give back to you!

40"The King will reply, 'I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me."

Your mother and your family are in my prayers.

Kirby L. Wallace said...

Anonymous: "The "seeker churches" you condemn would pay these medical expenses. Good luck with your reformed family."

Anon, dude, so would have the Mormons and counteless other cults. It's true if it gives you money?

Man, that theology is about as deep as the teflon coating on a five dollar frying pan.

And now, if you will excuse me, I need to visit PayPal...

Doug said...

For whatever its worth --

I was diagnosed with cancer 8 years ago; surgery and chemo followed (I am now in remission).
My wife left me during that time, to freely pursue a sexual relationship with another man.

The seeker-driven church I attended at the time ignored me and my needs, and also refused to discipline my wife (she has since filed for divorce, and it was granted by the state). They told me it was more important to attend to the needs of the rest of the church, and its plethora of programs.

Don't think for a minute that seeker-oriented churches will care about anything that does not promote growth in numbers and donations.

And now...on to PayPal

Anonymous said...

Hi, Josh, Your mother is in my daily prayer. May she get well soon.

My 11-year-old daughter urged me to donate and we both did. We pray God have mercy on your Mom Carol, and heal her complete.

Love,

Sunny & Jessie

Anonymous said...

Would like to contribute but have no credit card. Any way I could send moneyorder to your ministry????

Marion said...

Hi Josh!
We are still with you, praying for your mom!
Greetings f.G.,
Marion

J and J Bible Ministry said...

Dear Anonymous,

Please email me at JJBibleMinistry@aol.com and I would gladly give you my mom's address.

Thank you for even considering helping us!

Blessings,

Josh

J and J Bible Ministry said...

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

Greetings in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.

I want to thank each one of you for your continued prayers and generosity for my mom and family in our time of need. We are very grateful and we humbly thank you. I will keep everyone posted on how my mom is doing.

As far as her chemo, we started at 84 months and we are now down to 68 months!

Keep an eye on the thermometer on the top right of the blog as I will keep it updated.

No matter what happens to my mom or our family, we want God to be glorified in any circumstance we are in.

All that matters is that God be glorified.

He is worthy.

He is precious.

Blessings,

Josh

Mandy Strahan said...

Josh,

Your blog was sent to me by a friend on Stumbleupon. I had not seen it before today and look forward to reading more.

My mother is a breast cancer survivor so I have an idea of what you are going through.

I have made a donation and will share this blog with others in the hope you can achieve your goal to help pay for your mother's medications.

May God bless you and help you through this troubled time.

Your Sister in Christ,
Mandy Strahan

Br'er Shaygetz said...

Blessings, grace and peace to you and yours...

Mandy Strahan said...

I am happy to see the thermometer has doubled since my post. I hope that with our continued Stumble sharing we can get it even higher!

Our prayers are with you and your family.

God bless,
Mandy

Richard Pike said...

Josh - can you drive stick? And where are you at? God is leaning on me to help you out, so give me some details and maybe we can get you some wheels.
Richard

Tracy said...

Hello Josh,

I came across your request for help while visiting Slice of Laodicea yesterday and gladly made a donation to help with your mother’s care. I will pray for her and your family during this trial and will ask family and friends to do the same.

I have never posted a comment to a site before but I feel compelled to say something in response to some of the posts listed. My husband and I surrendered our lives to Jesus Christ about 2 ½ years ago, and God, in His sovereign providence, lead us to a series of documentaries produced by Mark Kielar’s CrossTV, which lead us to a treasure-trove of godly preaching and teaching by the likes of Charles H Spurgeon and Jonathan Edwards, to like-minded pastors, preachers and teachers of today and ultimately to sites like Slice of Laodicea, Apprising Ministries and Truth Matters. These resources are a blessing and I am thankful to God for the men and women who post them in the face of what looks to be this generation’s “down grade.”

That some people are using your family’s crisis as an opportunity to leave hurtful, vindictive messages is beyond comprehension. Is this how congregants of seeker-sensitive and word-faith/prosperity churches share their faith and reflect the teaching they sit under? 2 Corinthians 13:5 says to “Examine yourselves, to see whether you are in the faith. Test yourselves. Or do you not realize this about yourselves, that Jesus Christ is in you?—unless indeed you fail to meet the test!" In other words, check your walk, people!

Whether Reformed, Emerging or somewhere in between, mean and spiteful comments are no reflection of the love and spirit of Jesus Christ. We can debate a multitude of issues until He returns, but it all comes down to one thing: what does Scripture say? Not what you think it says or how you feel about what it says, but what does it say, or more to the point, what does it say in context? From what I’ve come to learn and understand, the Gospel was not meant to entertain us and Jesus did not come to meet our “felt-needs” by making us rich or even keeping us in good health, but regarding those things He did say in Matthew 6:33 to “seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.” To seek happiness, health or prosperity over and above seeking God’s kingdom and His righteousness is equivalent to spinning our wheels.

Speaking of wheels, I am familiar with Fred Price. He gets to roll around in a luxury ride and live in a palatial home because his congregation and those who watch him and listen to him finance his lifestyle. It would be interesting to know how many of his supporters go without basic necessities or skip paying a bill in order to “prove” their faith. Mr. Price is indeed blessed, and to paraphrase the words of our Lord and Savior, truly I say to you, he has his reward in full.

Josh, may God bless your efforts with an avalanche of contributions and prayers for your mom's medical care and recovery.

Anonymous said...

Josh,
I have prayed for your mother Carol, (same name as my own mom), and will continue to remember her. Would you please check out hacres.com concerning your mom's struggle? Based on the diet God gave man in the Garden of Eden, the info on this site has been of great help to literally hundreds of those struggling with cancer. May every day the Lord has planned for your mom be fulfilled. Amen.
Katherine

getting there said...

I really wish I could help, I have a paypal account and have no idea how to activate it(I am technically challenged on some things). Please consider going to www.helium.com ( they pay money for writing articles ) I am hoping you can register to receive donations because then I could place my earnings from Helium onto you.

I have only earned about $100.00 but every bit counts.. if I am able to give to you what I can.. It would be great. In the mean time I will pray for you and your family in this time. I am in South AFrica so transfering money is a big schlep!

I also have no idea why some people use this area to bring you down, brush them off your shoulder and stay strong! Bless You!

Marie said...

Josh, My Prayers for your mother and family.
In Christ's love,
Marie

Tim Brown said...

So sorry to hear about your mother. And I have been more than happy to help out a bit.

Praying as well.

Tim

Marion said...

Hi Josh,
just a short note, to let you know, that we arew still praying for you, your mom and whatever she /you needs.
Greetings f. G,
Marion

Anonymous said...

My mom had breast cancer a few years ago. It is very tough. I'll be praying for Carol and you.

cdhill910 said...

Josh, I'm still praying for your mom and have made another contribution. Please contact this company;they provide assistance in obtaining medications:

Lash Group
Corporate Center Five
3735 Glen Lake Drive
Charlotte, NC 28208
Phone: 800.357.LASH
704.357.8869
Fax: 704.357.0036

I'm in the same situation with my mom. May God continue to strengthen and guide you each day.

God Bless

Anonymous said...

I’d like to remind others that we ALL have $20 or so that we can spare out of a paycheck. I’ve lost – just plain misplaced - more than $20 sometimes. I can lose $20 and not even notice it. If I were robbed on the street, and the guy only took $20, I’d call it a miracle. I’ve blown more than $20 on frivolous junk that “perished with the use.” I’ve forgone $20 in rebates simply because I couldn’t be bothered to fill out the forms. I can afford $20. And I think most people could.

I understand that I am perhaps more fortunate than others. For reasons completely unknown to me (and trust me, I’ve wondered why…), God chooses to bless me even though I in no way deserve it. Frankly, I do NOT deserve it. That’s what makes it so wonderful! ;-)

I personally think that the main reason more people aren’t giving isn’t because they cannot afford it, but because they simply cannot be bothered to. Even with the simplicity of your “click here”, I still actually have to “click there” (Oh, the agony!). Then I have to fill out the form. I can’t think of any way to streamline this any more than it already has been. It’s about as simple as it can get. People are just plain LAZY – myself included. I wouldn’t fill out a form even to receive $20.

I can at least pray that God will motivate people.

Here’s one motivation: I recently got fired. Finding a job in the middle of the economic “meltdown”, as an over-40 tech worker with no degree??? It’s is to laugh. And in the end, I got the foreclosure notice on Friday, and on the following Monday, I accepted the offer on my brand new (no cut in pay) job with a large signing bonus that paid all the back payments on my house with about, ooohhhhhh….. $20 left over.

And God made it abundantly clear, in the way things panned out, that He was behind it all.

If all that stood in the way of me sending you that $20 was my inconvenience, after receiving such blessings…what on earth would that say about me?

KW

Anonymous said...

"KW" You have made me so ashamed of myself. I have been blessed by this blog and you are correct that I am just too lazy to bother.

Josh (the 14 yr. old) Your testimony has brought me to repent. You said it made you happy to give $5.00. Why? Because you love the Lord! More importantly, you simply talked from your heart about sharing Jesus with your friends. You do not try to "soften" the message but you "boldly" share what Christ has done for you! I want you to know that the Lord "used" your wonderful testimony to bring me to my knee's and repent! Keep pressing on my young brother!!

Tony

Paul said...

Josh, I will pray for your mother --- here's hoping we can get that thermometer moving a bit quicker. One earlier contributor mentioned a sort-of Biblical diet: I've heard similar things from a Jewish fellow (a biochemist, I believe) called John Grinstein. His website's here, if you're interested:

http://www.gc100.com/html/clinical_trial_proposal.html

Essentially, he holds that the 20th century's advances in synthetic chemistry and food production have been something of a mixed blessing, with the result that mankind is consuming foods and medicines containing what he terms "chance molecules" --- i.e. chemical compounds which are radically different from those which God originally designed for human consumption. He has produced an anti-cancer formula from natural ingredients and also a natural diet, which some cancer patients have found helpful. I hope the site's of some use to you.

Also, a contributor from Australia wrote:

"It is such a pity that you can have health insurance in America and still be out of pocket such enormous amounts. ( Talk about kicking somebody when they're down. ) Coming from overseas where we have a universal health care system (Australia), it's not perfect but we are so grateful for it. I hope America can fix its health care crisis (especially with elections this year)."

This post was a little unsettling, theologically as well as practically. Here in Britain we also have universal health care, in the form of the National Health Service, now the largest single employer in Western Europe. A friend has recently been diagnosed with terminal cancer. The treatment she has received through the NHS has been appalling. For years she has been forced to contribute to a system which now in effect leaves her to die: since diagnosis, she has had to wait four weeks for a simple chest X-ray --- and there's no sign she'll receive actual treatment anytime soon (she's been told to take co-codamol for the pain in the meantime). She's in her early fifties yet she's had to quit work and is too weak even to get her groceries. The same appalling treatment was meted out to her son, who was (eventually) diagnosed with ulcerative colitis. It is a truly terrible system, but anyone who speaks out against it is accused of being uncaring, and thus effectively silenced. Public money has been poured into the NHS in ever greater quantities, yet it only gets more bloated and inhumanely bureacratic. Had my friend been allowed instead to retain her National Insurance contributions in a private health scheme, then at least she would now have some customer power, rather than being stuck on a waiting-list and rationed. The state has forced her to trust in it and has let her down. I'm not a free-market ideologue by any means, but please, America, be aware that there are two sides to this coin. And do beware politicians bearing promises...

Finally, as Christians, the question we should ask ourselves is, "Which means of providing care most glorifies God?" A coercive secular system like the NHS in which good health is seen as a right and God is left squarely out of the picture? ...Or something where Christians, in hope and faith, make voluntary contributions --- some sacrificially so --- to assist others in the name of Christ? What would Christ's model be, for us as His followers?

Matthew 5:16 "Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your father which is in heaven."

Or, as Josh put it:

"No matter what happens to my mom or our family, we want God to be glorified in any circumstance we are in."

"All that matters is that God be glorified."

I pray that He is. ...And, should I find myself in a situation as challenging as yours, that He grants me the obedience and faith which He has granted you. It is truly inspiring.

May He continue to guide and strengthen you, your mother and your family.

God bless,


Paul.

Anonymous said...

Hey coach just wanted to let you know that your mom is in your prayers. Thanks for being an awesome role model for both of my younger brothers even in this time of trial for you and your family.

Josh F

Grace Abounds said...

I'm praying for your mom & your family. I sent out your blog entry to everyone on my email list too.

Tamara Slack

Caron said...

Hi Josh,

Is there any update on your mom? I will continue to pray.

In Christ,

Caron

J and J Bible Ministry said...

Hi Caron,

Here is the latest:

http://bloodtippedears.blogspot.com/2009/01/update-prayer-and-help-for-my-mother.html

Have a great weekend.

Blessings,

Josh

Anonymous said...

Dear Josh and Carol:

I found out about your need when I was reading a dear sister's blog this morning. I, too, have posted a link to your site on my blog. We want to get the word out and I pray that many will be moved to pray and to give generously--even out of their own lack:

2 Corinthians 8: 1, 2
"Moreover, brethren, we do you to wit of the grace of God bestowed on the churches of Macedonia; How that in a great trial of affliction the abundance of their joy and their deep poverty abounded unto the riches of their liberality."

Acts 4: 32-35
"Neither was there any among them that lacked: for as many as were possessors of lands or houses sold them, and brought the prices of the things that were sold,"And the multitude of them that believed were of one heart and of one soul: neither said any of them that ought of the things which he possessed was his own; but they had all things common... And laid them down at the apostles’ feet: and distribution was made unto every man according as he had need."

2Co 9:7 "Every man according as he purposeth in his heart, so let him give; not grudgingly, or of necessity: for God loveth a cheerful giver."

Brenda said...

I'll keep praying, Josh. I'm glad that such a program exists! It's encouraging that so many people have responded to your mom's need--God is so faithful!

Brenda said...

I just came to check for any updates, and I see that your Mom has been accepted!! Praise the Lord! Like you said, things will still be tight financially due to the price of the prescriptions, but for those who still would like to give, they can always mail you a donation, right? :-) Our Lord hears and answers prayers!

Pitman Photography said...

Praise the Lord!

I will continue to Pray brother.

Truth Matters said...

Brenda,

Yes. For anyone that would still like to help with my mom's medical expenses they may still donate. Although I took down the paypal button, paypal can still be used by sending to jjbibleministry@aol.com or through mail as you mentioned. Mom is doing really well on the chemo. I will continue to post updates on her progress every few months or so. Please continue to pray. We thank you!

Blessings.

Anonymous said...

I'm so glad to hear this good news. Praise God!

Chris said...

I will pray.

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